Showing posts with label Trisomy 8. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Trisomy 8. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 8, 2017

Trisomy 8 Day





Imagine you child being diagnosed with Trisomy and never hearing of it...... asking yourself what is Trisomy and searching the internet to find answers and not knowing if this precious child will live or die...imagine feeling lost or alone. I remember our very quiet ride back from Columbus the day Noah was diagnosed. Scott and I were both in shock and unable to even say a word to each other. We felt helpless that we weren't going to be able to "fix" our baby boy and feeling so sick to our stomach with the news we had just received. Can you imagine how we felt when we were told to put our sweet baby in a home and walk away because he would always be a vegetable. It was the worst feeling by far. It has been 18 years since that day. I wonder what that doctor would think of Noah now.... Would she still think he is vegetable?  That his life has no value? Grant it hasn't been the easiest road that we have traveled as a family but we are all better people because of it.

Thursday, March 31, 2016

Trisomy Awareness Month


The last month I have posted a photo a day for Trisomy Awareness Month. I hope it has been  like a window into Noah's world and you have found that he is more then just a boy on the sidelines.
He is a boy that has feelings, just like everyone else. He smiles, cries and he even gets mad. He even can be a bit ornery sometimes. He just wants to be part of this big big world.
I'm going to really miss sharing a picture of Noah everyday and I hope that you've enjoyed the journey.

Sunday, July 28, 2013

The Other Noah

 
 
I remember when I was pregnant with Noah and how even then I knew something wasn't quite right. I can't tell you what but I felt it. When he was born we were very excited that we had a little baby boy to love. His two big sisters adored him. But, the struggles for Noah started right away. He was having trouble with sucking and took and hour to drink 2oz. of formula. We spent the first several months of his life eating an hour and sleeping an hour 24 hours a day, just to get enough food in him, even doing that he still wasn't growing much.
 
 
 When he was 6 months old he only weighed 9lbs and still had no head control and that's when all the test began. We saw an endocrinologist to find out why Noah wasn't growing. He found nothing........ This was the same time that we started taking Noah to therapy hoping that it would help with Noah's ability to do things. Thinking about it now reminds me how desperate I felt.  In my desperate mind I kept thinking if I worked hard enough with Noah he would be on track by his 1st birthday. He obviously didn't happen but the fight continued to make him stronger.  That then brought on  how guilty I felt for not having the time for our two little girls as much as I would like. They never once complained but I still always wish that things could have been different for them growing up.  Morgan and Emily I'm so sorry if I ever made you feel like you weren't loved and cherished while growing up. All three of my children are my world and I'm so proud of the people they have become.
 
When Noah was 15 months old he only weighed 12lbs. He still couldn't sit up. This was also when he was diagnosed with Trisomy 8. What a blow that was. I remember riding home from Columbus and
Scott and I didn't say one word to each other. It felt like someone was standing on my chest. It was so hard to even breath. I remember the doctor telling us that Noah was going to be a vegetable for the rest of his life and that we should put him in a institution. I would never do that to my beautiful baby boy. Yes, he may not be able to sit, talk, or even eat on his own but he is far from a vegetable. He has so much personality, you just have to take the time to get to know him.
 

A month after getting Noah's diagnosis, Scott was diagnosed with testicular cancer. I remember feeling that I couldn't handle one more thing. Sadly I chose to focus just on Noah and block out everything else. I wanted to do everything I could to make Noah stronger. To this day I regret and feel so bad that I wasn't there to support Scott. What a scary time it was for him. So, Scott when you are reading this know that I love you very much and I'm sorry I wasn't there for you the way I should have been.


Speaking of Scott, I'm glad he has stuck by me and feel very blessed to have him in my life. Having a special needs child is tough. Most marriages with special needs children don't last. We have had our ups and downs but, I'm happy to say that we will be married 25 years next April. I think it times for a second honeymoon to celebrate. If only we could afford something like that.......

 
I love Noah so much that it hurts to consider that there was ever another "Noah" out there that could have been mine. that could have been the easier road in life.  A life where he didn't have to fight every single day to do the most basic of things. Where everything came naturally. Where it all came without all the trips to the doctors and hours of therapy. It kills me to think of the what "ifs". I love the person that he is. I feel most people look at him sitting quietly in his chair, that he understands and feels nothing. 



 He knows more then people give him credit for and if they would just take the time to talk to him, they would get the biggest smile. Guaranteed

Friday, March 8, 2013

3-8 Trisomy 8 Day


We are often asked what is wrong with Noah. When we say he has Trisomy 8, they then ask, "What is that?"  Have you ever wondered the same thing? And was afraid to ask?  Well today is March 8th, Trisomy 8 awareness day.
Noah was diagnosed with Trisomy 8 when he was 15 months old.  After over a year of wondering and many test we got the diagnosis. It was very devastating to hear but, we finally had answers. We look at all the things that could be be wrong with him and then felt very blessed that he had very few if any of the characteristics. So sadly Noah was hit with the double whammy. He also has Cerebral Palsy due to lack of oxygen at birth and no oxygen given to him to help him out.
For more info on Trisomy 8 read below.......
While you are reading, this do me a favor and keep Noah in your prayers. He is having a MRI and CAT scan today. It is our next step to determine if Noah is a good candidate for a cochlear implant.
Trisomy 8 is defined as the presence of three full copies of chromosome 8 in all of a person's cells. Mosaic trisomy 8 describes the situation that occurs when only a portion of these cells contains three copies of chromosome 8, while others contain the usual two copies of that chromosome. For example, people with mosaic trisomy 8 may have cells in their blood and other tissues with the normal chromosome number, but may have cells in their skin with trisomy 8. 
The condition is sometimes also referred to as trisomy 8 mosaicism syndrome (T8mS) and mosaic Warkany syndrome. Common characteristics of T8mS are distinct facial features, including low-set or abnormally shaped ears and a bulbous-tipped nose, eye abnormalities like strabismus and corneal clouding, bone and tissue abnormalities, various structural heart problems, palate abnormalities, hydronephrosis, cryptorchidism, mild to moderate mental delays, and deep hand and feet creases. These characteristics tend to vary widely from person to person. 
Characteristics of T8mS vary. In other chromosome mosaicism conditions, more severe symptoms and a worse prognosis are associated with a larger proportion of cells with an abnormal chromosome number being present. Interestingly, that does not seem to be the case in T8mS. The percentage of cells with trisomy 8 does not appear to correlate with the types of symptoms the affected person experiences.
The creases on the palms and soles of people with T8mS are the most unique characteristic of the condition. On the palms there may be more arches than usual on the fingertips and a single crease running across the palm. The creases are often deep and vertical, with a furrowed appearance, on the soles of the feet.
People with T8mS often have distinct facial characteristics. This can include a wide upturned nose, thicker and down turned lower lip, and low-set and prominent ears that may not be shaped in the usual way. They may also have abnormalities of the palate, including a cleft (opening) or highly arched palate.
Mental retardation can occur with the condition, and the degree of mental delays varies from mild to moderate.
Other findings in T8mS can include those of the bone and tissues. These may be narrow shoulders, absent knee caps, abnormally shaped toes, tighter joints, slender palms, extra or missing ribs, and curving of the spine.
Eye abnormalities are seen in T8mS, and the two most common findings are corneal clouding and strabismus where an eye turns in. These may or may not cause significant vision problems and require treatment. More rare eye problems can include a smaller eye size, smaller eye openings, droopy eyelids, wide-set eyes, tilted optic discs, nearsightedness, retinal abnormalities, and epicanthic folds.
Occasional other characteristics can include structural heart problems, hydronephrosis, underdeveloped genitalia, cancer, and testes that have not descended into the scrotal sacs.