By Cathy Anthony
a follow-up to the original
Welcome
to Holland by Emily Perl Kingsley
I have been in Holland for over
a decade now. It has become home. I have had time to catch my breath, to settle
and adjust, to accept something different than I'd planned. I reflect back on
those years of past when I had first landed in Holland. I remember clearly my
shock, my fear, my anger, the pain and uncertainty. In those first few years, I
tried to get back to Italy as planned, but Holland was where I was to stay.
Today, I can say how far I have come on this unexpected journey. I have learned
so much more. But, this too has been a journey of time. I worked hard. I bought
new guidebooks. I learned a new language and I slowly found my way around this
new land. I have met others whose plans had changed like mine, and who could
share my experience. We supported one another and some have become very special
friends. Some of these fellow travelers had been in Holland longer than I and
were seasoned guides, assisting me along the way. Many have encouraged me. Many
have taught me to open my eyes to the wonder and gifts to behold in this new
land. I have discovered a community of caring. Holland wasn't so bad.
I think that Holland is used to wayward
travelers like me and grew to become a land of hospitality, reaching out to
welcome, to assist and to support newcomers like me in this new land. Over the
years, I've wondered what life would have been like if I'd landed in Italy as
planned. Would life have been easier? Would it have been as rewarding? Would I
have learned some of the important lessons I hold today?
Sure, this
journey has been more challenging and at times I would (and still do) stomp my
feet and cry out in frustration and protest. And, yes, Holland is slower paced
than Italy and less flashy than Italy, but this too has been an unexpected gift.
I have learned to slow down in ways too and look closer at things, with a new
appreciation for the remarkable beauty of Holland with its tulips, windmills and
Rembrandts.
I have come to love Holland and call it Home.
I have
become a world traveler and discovered that it doesn't matter where you land.
What's more important is what you make of your journey and how you see and enjoy
the very special, the very lovely, things that Holland, or any land, has to
offer.
Yes, over a decade ago I landed in a place I hadn't planned. Yet I
am thankful, for this destination has been richer than I could have
imagined!